by Patti Maguire Armstrong and Theresa Thomas
New Rochelle, NY: Scepter Publishers, 2013
Patti
Maguire Armstrong and Theresa Thomas, who previously paired up to write
and compile the wonderful “Stories for the Homeschool Heart,” have now
come together to create “Big-Hearted: Inspiring Stories from Everyday
Families.”
What
makes a family big-hearted? It is a spirit of generosity with a focus
on putting God first. “The families in this book [share] the goal of
striving to put God first, of trying to love well.” The authors
encourage those who want to have big-hearted families to “sacrifice
much. Choose God’s will. Love profusely. Be big-hearted. And then see
how our almighty God, who is the same now as always, blesses you again
and again.”
Armstrong
and Thomas share their own experiences of being part of big-hearted
families growing up and then creating their own version of such a family
once they married and began to have children. This is not a two women
project, however. Many other voices weigh in and share powerful, and
sometimes difficult stories, of the struggle to love generously and be
open to life.
Thomas Mahala shares his story of fearing having a child with Down Syndrome. When his 8th
child and first daughter after seven sons was born with an extra
chromosome, he struggled to love her, but with time and God’s grace,
that love came. Calvin Bader shares he and his wife’s struggle with
infertility and how they became foster and adoptive parents. DeeAnn
Smith writes of her struggles with alcoholism and what it meant to have
the unconditional love of her children as she worked to get well.
Jeffery Gross highlights the life of his son who was born with cystic
fibrosis and who also suffered from muscular dystrophy. Sherry Antonetti
focuses on the adventure of taking a trip with ten children.
Light-hearted
stories balance heart-wrenching ones, but each of the families featured
in the pages of “Big-Hearted” have something to teach all of us about
the power of love and the importance of putting God first in our family
life.